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The Most Important Family Value To Have – Part 1 – Jayson & Ellen – 408

The Most Important Family Value To Have – Part 1 – Jayson & Ellen – 408

 

In this episode, Family Values Part 1, Ellen and I discuss the most important family value to have as parents while also remembering to factor in your kid’s values, interests & nature. We speak to the relational dynamics that the avoidant family and the emotionally-oriented family struggle with, and share how holding this value in mind can positively impact everyone’s experience on a day-to-day basis, and big-picture as your kids grow into contributing humans.

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Psychoanalysis, Jung, & Dreams with Dr. Stan Marlan – 407

Psychoanalysis, Jung, & Dreams with Dr. Stan Marlan – 407

 

This week I speak with Dr. Stan Marlan, a Jungian psychoanalyst, clinical psychologist, and author. He writes on Jung, alchemy, the philosopher’s stone, the art of illumination, and speaks to individuation, the individual and collective unconscious, archetypes, psychedelics, and how we introject our parents into the depths of our unconscious… Plus he offers up a little taste of psychoanalysis in action by doing a dream interpretation of a dream I recently had!

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Integral Theory, Society, & Lines of Development with Jeff Salzman – 405

Integral Theory, Society, & Lines of Development with Jeff Salzman – 405

 

This week I spoke with Jeff Salzman about Integral Theory (the idea that culture and consciousness have been, and will continually evolve) and how it applies to what’s shaping our world right now. If you want another frame to help you understand turbulent times, this will be helpful. Listen here for the full episode.

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AMA: Emotional Intelligence, Being a Role Model in Your Family, & Over/Under Parenting – Jayson and Ellen – 404

AMA: Emotional Intelligence, Being a Role Model in Your Family, & Over/Under Parenting – Jayson and Ellen – 404

 

Join Ellen and I for a special ‘Ask-Me-Anything’ episode where we tackle some listener questions: What Do I try talking to my husband about something that bothers me and his first and continual reaction is anger and defensiveness? What are your thoughts on dating someone with addictions? Is it reason enough to leave, should people be given grace, Is it a big enough issue to stay away entirely?  Is there a situation where refusing to get an STD test isn’t a red flag?

When kids grow up watching their parents angrily go to their rooms/leave the house which implicitly teaches them that emotions are overwhelming and/or scary. This understanding can easily translate into our kids dissociating from their emotions (retreating into screen addiction,  or other behavioral issues, and later, as adults, into emotional eating, substance abuse, porn addiction, etc.). It starts with you as a parent taking the lead and role modeling for them how to feel/process their emotions, and speak to their experience, without under/over parenting.

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Neurodiverse Adult Relationships with Grace Myhill – 403

Neurodiverse Adult Relationships with Grace Myhill – 403

 

Do you know the difference between neuro-diverse, neuro-divergent, and neuro-typical? Did you know 1 out of 48 people identify as neuro-divergent, and that nowadays the terms ‘aspergers’ and “high-functioning” are outdated?  Are you confident you’re using language such as ‘the spectrum’ respectfully and accurately?Join me this week while I speak to Grace Myhill, a couples coach who specializes in working with neuro-diverse clients and learn some of her tools that will help all couples (and ourselves). 

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